The path to consensus is simply tolerance. People can believe whatever they want without affecting your beliefs.
When we all make informed decisions, we can all live with everyone’s choice and move forward together, even when we made different informed decisions.
This chart shows two paths. Which one you follow is your choice, not someone else’s. I’m not saying one is right and one is wrong. They simply reflect two different priorities, two different perspectives, two different approaches, etc.
Source: Book of Mormon Concensus